For children whose parents are going through a divorce, the nanny is often a pillar of stability. During the many transitions, the nanny can become a pivotal figure -- an important "third adult" in the child's life that is always consistent. Parents should avoid...
Child Custody
Can my child choose which parent to live with in New Jersey
Your child's opinion matters in custody decisions, but it doesn't always reflect the result of the court’s deliberation. New Jersey courts listen to what your child wants, yet judges must weigh many other factors before they make a final decision. Thus, understanding...
Communication in child custody should be handled carefully
Parents who go through a divorce don’t have the luxury of never speaking to each other again. Instead, they have to find ways to communicate effectively so they can raise their children. Having a plan in place for handling communication is beneficial for the parents....
Which co-parent makes key decisions on a child’s behalf?
Parents need to make certain decisions for their children as they grow up. While under 18 years old, these children are not legal adults and may not have the authority to make these choices themselves. For example, if a child wants to open a bank account or invest...
Don’t let holiday custody schedules give you the blues
No one enjoys co-parenting during the holidays. Even young children remember holiday seasons past when their parents were together. And while co-parenting over the winter has its low spots, there are ways to put a brighter spin on things that can coax kids’ smiles...
High-stakes custody: Protecting your child’s lifestyle
You face one of the most difficult challenges of your life: a high-asset divorce involving your children. New Jersey law demands that every custody decision serve the "best interests of the child." But when both parents hold substantial wealth, this core standard...
When do children need to share their custody preferences?
Children generally love both of their parents. They crave the support and acceptance of their parents, even if family circumstances become very complicated. Anything that threatens their connection with their parents could cause psychological distress. When parents...
Tips for communicating with your ex about your children
Ending a romantic relationship with your child’s other parent triggers the need for both adults to learn how to communicate about the child. This isn’t always easy, particularly if there are negative feelings because of the matters that led to the end of the...
3 considerations for co-parenting this summer
School is almost done for the year, much to most children’s delight. If your children are still minors, and this will be your first summer after your divorce, it’s important to understand and prepare for the unique challenges that lie ahead. Here are three things to...
What you need to know about a child custody evaluation
When you and your child’s other parent are unable to reach an agreement on custody and visitation, the matter will have to be hashed out in court. This can be a tricky matter to address, as the judge is often left with conflicting information while having to give one...

